About Me

I am Dissirama Lao Akpoboua - A third culture 30 something who understands the challenges of balancing family life, personal growth, and cultural identity. As a mother of two young children and a wife, I know first hand the joys and struggles of juggling multiple responsibilities while pursuing our passions.

Born and raised in West Africa (Ivory Coast, Togo, Burkina Faso, Mali), I have experienced the richness of a vibrant culture, and I understand the unique struggles that come with trying to balance different cultural identities. Having lived in Canada and the US for several years, I have also experienced the challenges of adapting to various cultures/social expectations while staying true to who I am. I currently live in Brentwood California.

In my day to day professional life - I'm a seasoned financial services and payments expert with over 15 years of experience in operational effectiveness and risk management. Throughout my career, I've challenged the status quo, navigated complexity, and translated leading management practices into actionable strategies. My fearlessness when it comes to big ideas, paired with my attention to detail, has allowed me to execute with excellence and build a track record of success. I take pride in my ability to build strong relationships and advocate for inclusion, diversity, and equity in the workplace.

Personal coaching developed for me as hobby and solidified as a true passion! I am committed to helping you achieve your goals and create the life you truly want. My coaching is built on a foundation of empathy, encouragement, and accountability. I will support and challenge you as needed, helping you overcome any obstacles that may be holding you back. I believe in a holistic approach to personal development, taking into account all aspects of your life, including your family, work, and personal passions. You'll be able to achieve greater balance, fulfillment, and success in all areas of your life.

So whether you're seeking greater clarity and direction, trying to balance family life and personal growth, or looking to navigate the complexities of cultural identity and parenthood, I'm here to help. Let's work together to create a brighter future for you and your loved ones!

I offer a free virtual consultation for you to learn more about my style of personal coaching and to actually work on an issue that's important to you. The session is 30mins long and there's no obligation. If you decide you're interested in a coaching relationship and I decide the same , I'll design a program that's personalized to your needs and circumstances.

Much of our time will be spent in challenging more of you to "show up" and more of your resources to come online. We'll explore areas that are less familiar to you and less comfortable to you, all in service of your deeper growth. Please review more about me and my coaching approach before inquiring. During this one-on-one coaching session, we'll work together to identify your goals as a parent and create a personalized plan to help you achieve them. We'll discuss a range of topics, including:

  • Defining your identity as a parent

  • Balancing work and family life

  • Managing stress and building resilience

  • Creating healthy habits for you and your family

  • Building strong and meaningful relationships

  • Navigating difficult situations and challenges

IT IS ABOUT YOU

I fundamentally believe that you have the answers. Our time will be spent on deepening awareness, finding new perspectives, and questioning assumptions you’ve made about yourself and your family. I have raised a young family while building a career in risk leadership across many industries, functions, and geographies but nobody knows you as well as you do! My coaching focuses on you as a whole person.

ACCOUNTABILITY IS KEY

I approach our coaching sessions with a balance of empathy, encouragement, and challenge. I believe in you and will support and motivate you towards achieving your goals. At the same time, I will also hold you accountable and challenge any self-limiting beliefs that may be holding you back. My coaching is designed to help you grow and flourish, while also achieving success in other areas of your life.

IT IS ABOUT THE FUTURE YOU WANT

Achieving your goals and pursuing your dreams requires effort, much like climbing a mountain. You need to prepare, plan, and have the right tools to reach new heights. As your personal coach, my approach is focused on tangible outcomes rather than rigid frameworks. You will unlock practical results that will help you progress towards your desired destination.